"Security is mostly superstition. There is in nature, nor the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no securer in the long-term exposure total. Life is a daring adventure or nothing. To keep our faces toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is the invincible power. "~ Helen Keller
What to do to promote the ailingusion of security? What convinced you possibly can have control over feeling secure and secure? What are the false beliefs that perpetuate exploitation of the ailingusion of securety and security?
* If you do everything right - if I'm "perfect" - they can have control over the sense of security of rejection.
Have you ever worked for you? Have you ever been rejected, no matter how hard I tried to be perfect?
* If you win enough money, I'll be secure.
I know many wealthy people who live with constant anxiety, fear of losing your money. The money wailing protect you against life - the lack of a loved one, lack of health or having a car accident?
* If I live alone, without risking life, I'm sure.
Really? Is it secure to loneliness, distress or disease? Is it secure to fire, floods, tornadoes, earthquakes or other natural disasters?
* If I go with the right people - a physician, lawyer of law, good therapists, good builder, architect and so forth, so I can make certain that everything wailing be fine. Finding one in all the best person for the job that keeps me secure.
We've all heard of people that went to the "best" surgeon and underwent an operation failed, or "better" builder and had nothing but problems with your home.
* If I am aggressive enough or in sufficient, and others do what I want and I wailing you'll want to be left alone.
Most relationships fail, accomplish that due to attempts to gain control over them immune to rejection.
* If I things with food, alcohol or drugs, or if the work area or on television, or failing me with sex or other addictions, so I'm sure of my lonely despair and the anxiety.
Perhaps these temporarily to cover more of loneliness and distress, but the reason for his pain - the pain of loneliness and emptiness due to abandonment. It is never possible to feel secure when we leave.
There are msome other things to do to attempt to feel secure, but on this planet, the securety of loss and damage is an ailingusion. How can we live a full and vibrant?
We can learn from what Helen Keller said. "To keep your face toward change and behave like free spirits in the presence of fate is the invincible power"
What can I do that every day, you already know I'm not alone on this difficult path of life. Over the years, I practiced internal links, and learned to communicate with my personal source of spiritual guidance, I felt securer and more secure.
There are two main reasons why they feel more secure:
* I know I am not my body - my soul and body are separate. While my body may be damaged and die, my soul cannot die. I consider that A Course in Miracles said firstly: